1. Qaphela ubuntu bekati lakho. Wonke amakati afuna ukwazi,umenzi wezintambo zezinjakodwa kufanele ubone ukuthi bafuna ukwazi kangakanani ngezwe langaphandle. Ezinye izingane zingakhuluma ephepheni kuphela, njengokuma efasiteleni ukuze zibuke ngaphandle, kodwa lapho umnyango uvuleka, ugijima ubuyela emuva, noma izivakashi zasekhaya zizocasha ukuze zithole, lokhu akunconywa ukuba uphume uyohamba, kungase kube novalo kakhulu. noma ingcindezi…… Uma ikati linomoya wokungenisa izihambi, noma okungenani lingesabi ukubona umuntu elingamazi endlini, futhi lizovula umnyango futhi lizule lehla ezitebhisini, lifuna ukwaziumenzi wezintambo zezinjahlola indawo, leli ithalente elithambile elingahlakulelwa ukuhambahamba. Isimiso sokuqeqesha siqale sichaze ukuqeqeshwa ngaphandle kwesimiso, njengoba umzali kufanele enze kanjalo: kufanele kube ukuqapha ngesikhathi sangempela!! Ungalokothi ubeke ithemba elikhulu emakhonweni ekati! Ngeke uphephe kakhulu! Ukumkhipha ukuze adlale akusho ukumxosha bese ulinda ukuthi abuye yedwa, okungcono kakhulu naye, ikakhulukazi njengomgadi. Ungabeki ukwethembela kakhulu emakhonweni ekati lakho. Bangase babhajwe esimeni esiphuthumayo futhi bangakwazi ukufika ekhaya isikhashana. Lezi zidalwa ezicashile zizokubuka ugijima ungasho lutho uma ubaleka...umenzi wezintambo zezinjaNgakho-ke kufanele ukuqaphele lokho ngaphambi kokuba uthuthuke, futhi kufanele uhlale uhlola ikati… 3. Imanuwali yokuqeqesha Uma uhlala esakhiweni, ungagqoka intambo (yonke inhloso ukuthi usujwayele intambo) bese udlala ezitebhisini kuqala. Uma izitebhisi zivaliwe ungamyeka azulazule ngaphandle kwentambo. Bheka ubudlelwano bakhe nomphathi wakhe noma ubudlelwano bakhe nomndeni wakhe. Isibonelo: Lapho ingane yethu yekati isingaphezu konyaka owodwa ubudala, iqala ukuhlola iphaseji. Uthanda ukwehlela phezulu naphansi. Ngemva kokuhamba isikhashana, uzoma ukuze akulinde, noma akushayele ucingo uma ungafiki.
Uzizwa ephephile lapho enomnikazi wakhe eduze futhi angahlola kude. Noma kunjalo khumbula, ungamyeki emehlweni akho! Akakhumbuli phansi futhi angase alahleke. Noma mhlawumbe umakhelwane avule umnyango futhi amethuse. Ngakho ukuphepha kuza kuqala! Ungalindeli ukuthi uzofika yedwa ekhaya! Lapho ujwayelene ephasishi, akadlalanga fun, ungakwazi ucabangele ukuhlola umphakathi. Ukuhlola umphakathi kungaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma kunabantu abaningi nezinja eziningi. Ungakhetha ikhoneni elithule elinabantu abambalwa, gqoka intambo yomthofu (inqobo nje uma uphuma endlini uyogqoka) bese umbamba lapho isikhathi esithile, uhlezi ebhentshini lamatshe noma ubambe isitendi noma uphindaphinda ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, cishe uzizwa ejwayelene nakho angase aphume ezingalweni zakho futhi agxumele phansi ukuze ahlole. Uma uhlola, uma ungafuni ukuthi adlule otshanini, ungadonsa umqinise kancane futhi umazise ukuthi usho ukuthini. Ukuya ekhaya nakho kungaba ukwanga kude; Uma uhlangana nomuntu noma into ethusayo, enjengomdlwane, mthathe ngokushesha ukuze umvikele, kungenjalo kungase kukuhudule ugijima... Futhi kungcono ungamvumeli adle ngaphandle… Nakuba iningi lamakati lingeke likwazi. kodwa ezinye izingane zithanda ukuhlafuna utshani (utshani bekati akufanele budliwe ekhaya, ukudla utshani ngaphandle) futhi kanye ngenyanga ukwenza umuthi omuhle wokubulala izikelemu ~ basic or safe ~ uma uhlala endlini yokulala, noma une igceke elincane elijabule kakhulu. Ungaqala umthathe ukuze ajwayelane nemvelo yegceke elincane. Uma ujabule ngempela, ungahlala ngaphakathi komugqa wokubuka futhi uphephe (udonga luphakeme?). Khipha intambo ngaphansi kwemvelo futhi uzihlolele ugqoke isifuba nomhlane kuphela. Kuleli qophelo, uma udlula odongeni… Leso kwakuyisiqalo somlando, okusho ukuthi wayengasekho ekhaya lakho futhi kwase kuyisikhathi sokuhlola umhlaba obanzi… Uma lokho kungenzeka, cabanga ukuthenga indawo ozohamba ngayo nesifuba sakho. futhi emuva. Kunjalo, lesi simo maningi amathuba okuthi sibaleke, noma sidlale ngaphandle singafuni ukuya ekhaya, lokhu kuncike kubazali ukuthi bayimisa kanjani imithetho… Umdwebi wezinyembezi nekati ngokwabo bayahlolana, futhi amathuba ngemuva kokuzijwayeza basebaningi nabaningi.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Oct-31-2022