1. Ngemva kokutotoswa, iyazikhotha futhi inambitha iphunga. Kuyiphunga amakati alizwayo esingalizwa.umenzi wezingubo zezinja
2. Izindlela ezivame kakhulu zokukhombisa “uthando” ukusonga umsila wakho eduze kwakho, ukuthinta umlenze wakho ngekhanda noma umzimba wakho, bese uhlikihla ingemuva lendlebe noma ubuso ngokumelene nawe. Umqondo uwukushiya iphunga elijwayelekile kuwe ukuze ulenze likhululeke kakhudlwana, noma mhlawumbe likuphathe njengomuntu ongaphansi kwalo.umenzi wezingubo zezinja
3. Ukukukhotha, njengokukhotha amanye amakati, kubonisa “ukwethemba nothando.”umenzi wezingubo zezinja
4. Uma ikati lilele emathangeni akho, kufanele likuhlabe. Ngeke igxumele ethangeni lomuntu elingamthandi.
5. Uma ekulethela isipho (njengegundane elifile), kukhombisa ukuthi une-"crush" kuwe, futhi kubonisa ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi "umama" wakhe.
6. Ikati elinomsila oqondile libonisa uthando oluqinile. Uzoqaphela ukuthi umsila wekati ulenga phansi uma usondela kubantu noma amakati angawazi.
8. Ukubeka isidladla engalweni yakho kugcizelela ukuthi “inokuchoboza” kuwe.
9. Lapho igobisa kancane umhlane futhi ikuhlikihla emlenzeni, ithi, “Ngiyakuthanda.”
10. Cats purr ngenxa yezizathu eziningi. Uma bekhuluma kabi lapho bekugcona, “bakuthanda ngempela.”
Esimweni semvelo, amakati njengezilwane ezihlala zodwa, athuthukisa amathuba okusinda kuncike kuwo. Amakati anamahloni ngokwemvelo kunezilwane zomphakathi ezihlala ngamaqembu, njengabantu nezinja. Amakati angawesabi amanzi asemathubeni amaningi okuthi agwilize, futhi ukwesaba amanzi kuyindlela eyinhloko yokuphila nokuzalana kwamakati. Ukwesaba nokuzwela, kuwumphumela wokuzikhethela kwemvelo, ukusinda kwabanamandla. 3. Kungani amakati ecindezeleka kalula? Ingabe kuyazenzisa? Amakati afuywayo acindezeleka kalula ngoba ahlala emphakathini wesintu wanamuhla. Okhokho babo ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka edlule abazange bazibone izimoto, bezwe iziqhumane nemihlobiso, noma babe nokuminyana kwabantu abaningi kangaka (izici zabantu + ukuntuleka kwezilwane ezidla ezinye zemvelo). Okhokho bamakati babengabalekela izilwane ezidla ezinye noma bagibele ezihlahleni. Uma uzonda amanye amakati, ungasuka uyohlala kude. Kukhona nezimbobo ezihlahleni noma emadwaleni ngendawo yokuhlala, ngakho-ke izingcindezi eziningi zingama ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Yindawo eyingozi izikhathi eziphindwe kangamakhulu kunedolobha labantu, kodwa bakhelwe ukujwayelana nayo, kulapho-ke kuvela khona ukungezwani. Amakati athambekele ekucindezelekeni, okungenakugwenywa ngaphansi kwesisekelo sokuthi "ukugcina amakati edolobheni". Njengoba nje ufuna ukuzabalaza edolobheni elikhulu, i-foothold, kufanele ubhekane nokuncintisana okuphezulu nokucindezela kokuphila, umehluko uwukuthi: abantu bangakhetha, futhi ikati alikwazi.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Dec-28-2022