Okokuqala, unikeza inja yakho imiyalelo engalungile, futhi emibili, uthatha imikhuba emibi engalungile. Okwesithathu, ukumnika umyalelo ongalungile womndeni ake siqale sikhulume ngeziyalezo ezingalungile, futhi ukuqonda amaphutha ake siqale siqonde ukuthi izinja zicabanga kanjani. Inja empeleni ingumcabango onengqondo. Ngokuyisisekelo abanalo ikhono lokucabanga ngendlela enengqondo, banezingqondo ezilula kuphela.
Ngokwesibonelo, lapho sivalela inja yethu ekhejini ekhaya, inja iyohlale ikhonkotha. Kuleli qophelo, uma umnikazi ekhipha inja, utshele inja ukuthi iyakwazi ukukhonkotha nokugona. Ngakho-ke inja ayiqondi ukuthi iyakhathalela, ivele iqonde ukuthi ikhonkotha njengohlanya olubanjwayo.abakhiqizi bezingubo zezilwane ezifuywayo
Imikhuba engalungile. Izinja ziba nemikhuba emibi ngenxa ye-reflex eyodwa enesimo engalungile ngemva kwenye. Lona umkhuba omubi obangelwa ukunqwabelana kokusabela okungamanga kubantu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa imikhuba emibi kunazo zonke umkhuba omubi wokondla. Kungcono ukuthi inja yakho ibe namanzi amaningi, ukudla, ukudla okulula, namathoyizi lapho uphuma. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuvele ukuthi lezi zinja zinezilonda zesisu noma zizacile, futhi zijwayele ukuba ngabantu abadlayo. Kungani? Yile ndlela imikhuba emibi yokuphila ekhula ngayo. Ngoba wayengadla futhi aphuze noma nini futhi nomaphi lapho ethanda. Ngakho wayenendlela yakhe. Kufanele wazi ukuthi izinja akubona abantu kodwa zinekhono lokucabanga. Siyazi thina bantu ukuthi noma singakuthandi ukudla njengemifino, kodwa imifino iyasilungele,abakhiqizi bezingubo zezilwane ezifuywayosizozidla. Kodwa inja ayicabangi kanjalo. Uvele acabange, “Ngizodla noma nini lapho ngithanda.”
Khona-ke kufanele kube ukuqala kwenkathazo yesisu. Futhi ekugcineni, ukuhleleka okungalungile. Inja yenza ukulandelana uma kuziwa kunoma iyiphi indawo entsha. Izinja azibalwa ngokuthi ubani oziphethe kahle. Kunalokho, ubani obaphatha kahle, babaphatha njengezinceku. Futhi umuntu oshaye inja kakhulu,abakhiqizi bezingubo zezilwane ezifuywayoinja inhle kakhulu kuye futhi iyamesaba kakhulu, ngoba ifana, ingumholi womndeni, ngizothatha umholi. Ngakho abanye abantu bazokhala ngokuthi ngimuhle kakhulu, akalaleli. Eqinisweni, emqondweni wenja yakho, uphansi nje ekuhleleni kokukhonkotha. Lapho ecabanga ukuthi ungaphansi kwakhe ngokulandelana, kuba nzima ukushintsha, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukushintsha. Qala kancane. Manje ukuze wenze inja yakho ilalele.
Okokuqala, lungisa ikheji, uvale ekhejini lapho Umemeza into ethile ungayinaki, linda ithule futhi ibe muhle ngaphambi kokuba uyibambe. Khona-ke i-fixed-point quantitative feeding njalo, ungafuni ukuyidla ingadla, ingadla ngokungenamkhawulo, ibe nenani elimisiwe elivamile lokudla ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze udle isitsha sokudla kungaba, ungaphumuli, uphumule. ngokuzayo ungalungiseli abaningi kangaka, ukuze ukwenze kuqonde ngaphandle kwakho akukhona ukudla, ukulamba, nesidingo kwamanye amalungu omndeni ukubambisana, Awufuni ukumnika isabelo esivamile bese kuba namanye amalungu omndeni. umdlise ize. I-oda lokugcina lomndeni liyi-hit. Ukwazisa ukuthi ubani uyise, ikakhulukazi inja yakho inesibindi sokuluma abantu, lokhu kubi kakhulu, nesibindi sokukuluma ekhaya ngaphandle kwezulu, ukuluma izalukazi nezingane ngaphandle kuyoba nzima kakhulu. Ngokuzayo isaluma, yilwe ize iyofa, ulinge ukumelana nayo, ngenduku kunokuba uyibambe ngezandla uma ilunywa emhlane, ungayisabi, lapho ukwesaba kakhulu, kufanele kulwe kuze kube iluma abantu ukulungisa inkinga.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jan-03-2023